How to Stop Spam and Scam Messages From Strangers
Unknown numbers, investment scams, fake job offers and random group adds. Practical settings and habits that stop messenger spam — and how Yapie's Requests inbox helps.
Spam on messengers is getting worse: "investment opportunities", fake parcel deliveries, job offers paying for "likes", and being added to random groups. Here's how to shut it down.
1. Control who can message you
In Yapie, go to **Settings › Privacy & security › Who can message me**: - **Everybody (via Requests)** — strangers can write, but their messages wait in **Requests**. - **Only my contacts** — strangers can't start a chat at all.2. Control who can add you to groups
**Settings › Privacy & security › Who can add me to groups**. Choose **My contacts** or **Nobody** — everyone else has to send an invitation, which you can ignore.3. Use the Requests inbox
Messages from people you don't know land in **Requests**, not your chat list. While a chat is in Requests: - **Links are disabled**, so you can't accidentally tap a phishing link. - You can **Accept**, **Delete** or **Report and block**.4. Recognise common scams
- **"You've won"** a prize, phone or cash — but must pay a fee first. - **Task scams**: get paid to like videos, then "invest" to unlock earnings. - **Fake support**: someone claims to be from the app or your bank and asks for a code. - **Family emergency** from a new number asking for money. - **Parcel or bill** links asking for card details.See how to spot phishing links in chats.
5. Never share codes or PINs
No legitimate company will ask for your sign-in code, two-step code or wallet PIN. Read [why you should never share OTP codes](/blog/otp-scam-never-share-codes).6. Report and block
Reporting helps moderators remove scam accounts for everyone. In Yapie, open the chat or profile and choose **Report**, or use **Report and block** in Requests.7. Hide your details
Limit who sees your **last seen**, **profile photo** and **bio** to make you a less attractive target.Frequently asked questions
How do I stop strangers from messaging me?
In Yapie, set Who can message me to Only my contacts, or keep Everybody (via Requests) so strangers' messages wait in a separate inbox with links disabled.How do I stop being added to random groups?
Set Who can add me to groups to My contacts or Nobody. Others must send an invitation you can ignore.What should I do with a scam message?
Don't reply or tap links. Report and block the sender.Try Yapie free
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